Grateful is Beautiful

      I’m very grateful to live in this happy family, although in nature there would be a significant problem. I remained grateful. Today’s writes do not means that I want to boast up myself but I just wanted to share a sense of gratitude to others, that I’m very glad to live with my beloved family . 

     From both sides of my parents big family, my sister is the first person who studies abroad, before this none of my relatives study abroad. However, in the next year, I have an older cousin studying at Ireland in accounting field .  My sister is a second person in  family who take medicine field. My thanks grown up when I remembered that my sister is the second generation who attend SMAKJ ( best religious school in Johor ), even though before that I have an older cousin  went to the school , however, she is not well known like my sister’s. My famous and brilliant sister  made  every cousin that goes to the school,the teachers would say that they are my sister's cousin, teachers did not say they were my cousins, even I have long  period with my cousin compared to my sister. And, my name is rarely mentioned by teachers because they would mention my name as a younger sister to my older sister. The fact is, my sister is not a clever girl since her childhood, she can only read at the age of 8 years old, but she can perform brilliantly when she grew up.

     Not sometimes but often, teachers always make comparison between me my sister because she has high level of ingenuity and hardworking  compared to me. But I'm proud to having a sister like my sister. My thanks getting bigger when I passed the Darul Quran interview. Darul Quran ( International Maahad Tahfiz ) is one of the place that my sister really wanted to go, when she knew she failed the interview, she’s like having a nightmare. While me? I did not have a piece of a dream to get into DQ, but I managed to pass the interview phase. My parents forced me to go to DQ because among 1000 students that went the early interview only 100 student has been chosen, . Here, I started smiling because for the first time I've heard people say that  I'm better than my sister because my sister does not pass the DQ interview but I passed. And I was the first person from both  parents big family who memorise the Quran. I became the trigger to my family members to memorise the Quran, I became a pillar of confidence to my uncle to send their children to Maahad Tahfiz ( school to memorise Quran ). Till this day, I have 4 younger cousins who memorise Quran. Again, I’m very grateful to live in this great education of my parents.

     I don’t  mean to lower my other cousins, but, I want you to know how much I thank to Allah for giving me this great ni’mat. According to the increasing of my ages and parent’s, we regularly hold a discussion about current issues. My father always asked for my opinion,and I often hear the opinion of them. I also want to say that, my parents never forced me and my siblings to study hard, it’s enough to them for us to understand the meaning of life. Then,my parents never care about our grade or position during the tests, it’s sufficient to them for us to know the knowledge as well. My parents always give us support in any field we choose.

      In conclusion, parents are a reflection of the children, raise them with good things since childhood, always give children lot of love and moral support because only with loves and support the children will grow up very well, never force them to the things they did not like before listening to their explanations, try to find a solution for them. Good parents is a parents that understand their children.